Wednesday, April 01, 2009

Single...Yippppy!


Well come to think of being single..there are many benefits like
*You no longer have to miss your favourite TV serial if he calls.
*You no longer have to wait for calls.
*You can go out with your girl friends as much as you want without lying that you are unwell or something
*You can flirt with anyone and everyone now.
*You don't have to respect someone just because they are his parents.(even when you know they are not worthy of your respect)
*You no longer have to watch his "choice" movie.
*You can wear anything and not be answerable.
*You don't have to flatter anyone and say he is best looking(when you know there are better options available-Damn now we are speaking)
*You don't have to sacrifice your work anymore.You can be focused and at the same time be happy.
*You can shop as much as you want without being nagged HOW GIRLY YOU ARE!!
*You don't have to waste your money in buying expensive gifts for him.And still explain-Honey money is not what matters between us.(hell yeah damn my money,I spend that all on gifts )No longer though
*You no longer have to get into WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT game.(your mom or me,your bro or me)Crap!!!
*You no longer have to tell what kind of friends you have.
*You don't have to like or pretend you like his LOSER friend.(eewwweee!!!)
*You can read as many novels you want to.Can sleep late night reading your favourite book without being bothered and getting into the game-WHO IS MORE IMPORTANT.
*You will no longer be categorized because of what kind of food you eat or what living habits you have.In all total freedom.
*Weekends now means-Rest,sleep and eat.

15 comments:

Tim Perkins said...

Hi Chhavi,

Thanks for inviting me over to view you Blog.

I had a great time reading all your work here.

Very entertaining stuff.

I will add you to my reading list.

Please feel free to drop by mine again soon.

Be Well and Have Fun!!!

Best Wishes,
Tim...

Chhavi said...

Hey thanks for your comment!

NR said...

yup freedom is all what one needs!!

take care

Chhavi said...

Thanks Nazi!!
I thought You 'll also give your inputs!!

NR said...

Hey Chhavi your post is very well written ya, so i thought there was no need for any of my inputs, but can bring up some points....n actually u see its to a certain extent very right...but somewhere we do want to change for someone!!! Being single sometimes is nice but not always...human beings need companions as thats the way we all are made...only the degree of being able to sacrifice freedom for a relationship differs from person to person. We should always follow what our heart and conscience says n not what the majority goes for as that only makes us different frm them!!!

take care

Chhavi said...

no offense yaar but at the moment I feel blessed to be single and no available!

NR said...

thats good ya at least your not dependent on someone.....but someday or the other u will feel for it thats normal as far as human nature is concerned. Actually at this present moment what your feelings are is also pretty normal and everyone goes through it.
Chhavi its just like a vicious cycle of life as one goes through...depends on which stage u r!!!!!

take care

Chhavi said...

Maybe but dnt know why I dnt really feel convinced!
I feel I will be like this always now
:D
devil!!
lolz!

Deepika said...

you know what when you are in love.... you love doing all these things by your wish and with no regrets... thats the beauty of love.... True love means doing all these things by choice and enjoying it... This is what i feel...
when you are in relationship things are different and much beautiful and then these small things count nowhere...

Deepika said...

And one more thing left with the one you are in love you don't need to pretend anything love means to love for what you are....

Chhavi said...

hmm ..yeah can say!

Amal Bose said...

for someone not in love this list appears to be quite true..
but for someone in love, these things will be the ones they will enjoy doing

Chhavi said...

:D
he he he he he
yeah ..thats the honest reply!!!

Gaurav said...

from last few months, me enjoying every single day of my life.. no calls .. no meeting.. and imp one no waiting... hehehehe..!!!
and now my phone bills are down up to half or more, I guess.. which is directly proportional to more money in my pocket... hahahaha..

but at the same time, i do miss her.. :( ... but it is okay when she is happy... so... I am happy too... :D .. and now just trying to move on...! (next plz... :))!!!)

Chhavi said...

Ahh great going guys since you not only happy with her happiness but accepted her decision ,which hardly people do.
Its good to hear ur honest confession that you miss her and stuff and still not blaming and begrudging.!!
Way to go guy!!